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(I am “Bella’s mum”)

Celebrating Motherhood with Bella and Olivia’s Mums

This Mother’s Day, our founders sat down with their mums to reflect on confidence, self-worth, the highs and lows of motherhood, and the wisdom they’ve gathered along the way. Theirheartfelt responses are a beautiful reminder of the strength and resilience that come with being a mother.

Confidence & Self-Worth

What helped you build your confidence when you were younger?

Bella’s Mum: The Confidence to talk to strangers, meet new people, and put myself out there for work opportunities has always been there even when I felt imposter syndrome. I tried anyway. Having the confidence to fail has always been important to me. The same goes for relationships. If you don’t try, you’ll never know.

Olivia’s Mum: I didn’t have much confidence when I was younger, it wasn’t something that came naturally to me.

What advice would you give to women learning to feel confident in their own skin?

Bella’s Mum: Confidence in your own skin is about self-esteem and self-worth. Don’t compare yourself to others, especially on social media. Look in the mirror and find the things you like about yourself, there will always be something, no matter how small.

Olivia’s Mum: You’re far more capable and beautiful than you give yourself credit for. And remember, most decisions find a way of making themselves in the end.

What makes you feel beautiful today?

Bella’s Mum: Learning to love myself and practicing gratitude. You don’t need validation from others to feel beautiful. Your light shines from within.

Olivia’s Mum: My children. They’re a constant reminder of the beauty that comes from love, resilience, and connection.

Motherhood: The Highs & Lows

How would you describe motherhood?

Bella’s Mum: A constant emotional rollercoaster. Balancing work, life, family, and kids is challenging, but it’s worth it. The unconditional love and closeness of family are what make it so special. Watching my children’s successes and celebrating their little wins in life brings me so much joy.

What surprised you most about becoming a mother?

Bella’s Mum: I gained a deeper understanding and appreciation of my mother.

Olivia’s Mum: The biggest surprise was how much of motherhood is about being completely selfless. Your needs often take a backseat, but somehow, your heart grows fuller because of it.

What was the hardest part of motherhood that no one prepared you for?

Bella’s Mum: Experiencing my children’s pain, whether it’s emotional or physical. No one prepares you for how deeply you feel their pain.

Olivia’s Mum: Sleep deprivation. It’s a level of exhaustion no one can truly prepare you for.

What are some of your favourite memories of raising us?

Bella’s Mum: Sharing travel moments and experiencing new things together. Watching you both grow and make memories with me has been my greatest gift.

Olivia’s Mum: Listening to your laughter fill the house and watching you grow into who you are today. Those moments of pure joy stay with me.

What did you learn about yourself through motherhood?

Bella’s Mum: My children are the most important part of my life, even now that they’re adults. There’s a saying: You’re only as happy as your happiest child. It couldn’t be more true.

Olivia’s Mum: That no matter how old we get, we’re never really “grown-ups.” We’re all just emotionally vulnerable, doing our best. If you could go back and tell your younger self one thing about being a mum, what would it be?

Bella’s Mum: Time flies. Make the most of every stage in your child’s development, even the sleepless nights. One day, you’ll miss those moments even when they’ve become monosyllabic, grunty teenagers.

Olivia’s Mum: Give yourself more moment. to be present, to enjoy the little things, and to soak in every

Life Lessons & Wisdom

What’s something you wish more women knew about navigating life?

Bella’s Mum: Share your truth. There will always be someone else going through the same thing. You’re never alone.

Olivia’s Mum: There’s no rule book, and sometimes things are simply out of your control. The best you can do is trust yourself and keep going.

What advice would you pass on to the next generation of women?

Bella’s Mum: Don’t compare yourself to others on social media, it’s just a highlight reel. Celebrate other women instead. Support the sisterhood, and remember, kindness goes a long way.

Olivia’s Mum: No matter what anyone says, you are beautiful inside and out. Don’t let anyone make you believe otherwise.

What does “self-love” mean to you now?

Bella’s Mum: Taking an hour of “me time” every day to prioritise myself, recharge, and refresh without guilt.

Olivia’s Mum: It’s about embracing the quiet moments. Taking time for yourself to breathe, reflect, and recharge. You deserve that peace.

This Mother’s Day, we celebrate the beautiful, complex, and inspiring journey of motherhood.

Here’s to the women who nurture, guide, and love unconditionally. May you always find moments to care for yourself, too.